I am an observer.

I’m the kind of person who stands in the back, observing everything that goes around me. I do not need to be in the spot light to be happy, yet I don’t like to be in the back where everything is dark and silent. I usually see more than others because I notice things people normally don’t pay attention to. I can learn so much about someone just by watching their actions and their expression. I guess in a way, you can say that I’m very perceptive. 

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cishaming:

I’m going to just say it again, if you “reclaim” a slur, that means you can use it on you. Don’t use it on other members of your community unless you know for a fact that those individuals are ok with it, because it is still a slur no matter what and there are still people who will feel dehumanized by it.

this is the biggest piece of bullshit I’ve ever read. how about we don’t “reclaim” slurs in the first place? 

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